South Carolina Bankruptcy: Stop Apologizing for the Past
When you file for bankruptcy in South Carolina, you will need to go before a judge in order to have your bankruptcy approved. As our South Carolina bankruptcy lawyers know, a lot of different factors can make a difference as far as whether the judge signs off on your bankruptcy. However, one recent study shows that a simple thing can make a big difference: apologizing.
In the past, studies have demonstrated that apologizing has made a difference in the outcomes of both civil trials and in criminal trials. Until recently, however, no one had considered the impact of an apology on bankruptcy proceedings.
The Study on Saying Sorry in Bankruptcy
The study on the effect of an apology on bankruptcy proceedings was conducted by two law professors, who presented 137 different bankruptcy attorneys with a hypothetical bankruptcy scenario. In the scenarios where the debtor offered an apology, there was a greater chance that the repayment plans were approved by the bankruptcy judge than in the cases where the debtors did not offer an apology.
In addition to a greater likelihood of having a claim approved, those who offered an apology were also more likely to be met with greater permissiveness in terms of discretionary expenses. For example, the judge was more likely to permit things such as a child’s gymnastics lessons as discretionary expenses.
The authors of the study indicated that the filing of bankruptcy, in-and-of-itself, could be considered an admission of guilt or acceptance of culpability. However, by apologizing when filing for bankruptcy, this showed that the debtor was more remorseful. The authors of the study indicated that this could be an indicator that the debtor was more serious about getting his finances in order, thus encouraging the judge to be more permissive in approving the bankruptcy plan.
When a judge approves a bankruptcy plan, the only victims are creditors – who are often not present in the court room at the time – and the wrongs done to the creditors are usually small in comparison to situations where an actual crime is committed. However, we know in reality people have apologized too often, and for too long, about debt caused by medical bills, predatory lending, job loss and other factors outside the debtor’s control. Getting experienced legal help is the first step in reclaiming your life.
Will Apologizing Really Help You?
Of course, there is never any guarantee that apologizing is going to make a difference or help your bankruptcy plan to be approved. You still need to create a realistic repayment plan under chapter 13 that meets the requirements set forth by the law and determined by your bankruptcy trustee.
Without experienced legal help, consumers too often spend years or even decades struggling with unmanageable debt, paying little more than interest back to predatory lenders and mortgaging their futures and their retirement in the process.
If you are considering bankruptcy, contact the Columbia, South Carolina attorneys at Matthews & Megna today at 877-253-7705.